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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:27

How does one succeed in life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why did the massacre of al-Dawayima Palestinian residents not have the same reverberations as the Deir Yasin massacre?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why are the bands Smashmouth and Nickelback often used as punchlines?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Has Pope Francis signed a document that gay men can now become priests?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Can it be true that people know your name, not your story, they’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through, so take their opinions of you with a grain of salt?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What are the pros and cons of living in Male, Maldives?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why do people love to live alone in a house?

Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What is the one thing you don't understand that others do?

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

When a dog smells another dog’s poo or wee, do they then remember that scent for when they smell it again, or even further know which dog they are smelling if they know the dog?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What do all Indian parents have in common?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What is the sum of X+XX+XXX+XXXX?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What are the basic human needs according to psychology? What are the consequences of not meeting these needs?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Ask yourself:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.